Monday, September 21, 2015

How To Pin Point If Your Holding On, And When It's Time To Flush That Bullshit Down The Toilet!!

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Holding on to a relationship that is not productive, can not only be a strain on your heart, but a strain on your mental well being  also..
Why do both men and women hold on to something that they know will not last? Why do people continually put themselves through the unnecessary bulls**t? Is it to save save the embarrassment of a failed relationship? Or has the person just become so used to the other party that they fear being alone?
There could be many answer's to the question's posed.. But at the end of the day, is it worth it?  Is it worth staying with someone you absolutely know brings you down or causes pain to you? Just to say that have someone??
That my friend is a question that only you can answer, because you and only you know how much you can endure.
However, let's take a moment and focus on why it is not worth staying in such a relationship, whether it be a relationship with a child, friend, co-worker, or spouse, no relationship is worth losing your self!!
And at some point one must be strong enough to know when to cut all ties and let go..
If a person is not bringing something substantial in your life, isn't treating you the way you want to be treated or simply isn't loving you the way you want to be loved.. Then my God, why are you holding on? Doing so only causes more pain and could ultimately be detrimental to your health..
Yes, we all know that not accepting a person for who and what they are, falls a little on the selfish side, but it would be unfair to you to endure a relationship of any kind that is not cultivating you.
And bringing out the best person you know you can be!
Since I have brought to your attention that you may in fact be holding on to some Bulls**t, let me bring to you why it's time to flush that sh*t right down the toilet!!
 1. You have grown apart and it is now time to move forward with your life.

2.The trust and loyalty are simply gone.

3.When you don't know where you stand with the other person.

4. When you don't have the same vision, and your vision begins to get a little blurred.

5. If you are the only one in the relationship trying to make it right, it is definitely time to let go!!

6. When he or she does not encourage you or believe in you.

7. And most importantly, if the relationship isn't bringing you what you what or need, because, after all.. it is your happiness that is on the line.

Now that you know that you have been holding on and when to let go.. What will your next move be? Remember that you cannot blame anyone else for your failure's or let down's.. it's always up to you, and the ball is always in your court! Everyone has choices, so if you choose to stay in a relationship that brings you misery and pain.. Then please suffer in silence.. No one want's to hear your continuing complaints!! Either love it.. or leave it!



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