Is his profession driving a wedge between your relationship?
Alot of lonely, cold, sleepless nights, equals a relationship that's lacking chemistry.
Whether his profession is being a Truck Driver, Construction Worker, The Ceo of his own business or just simply.. a plain ole "Block Provider" (Block Provider?) "what's undastood, needs no explanation"
A woman lacking that time due to him being on his grind, can ultimately point to disaster in the best of best relationship.
Why do you see women who are in those "damn" near perfect relationships cheat?
Why on earth would a woman who has it all "ALL" cheat (and to cheat by my definition.. is to give any man ANY of your time when your in a relationship) is what alot of people would ask a woman who seems to have just about everything.
Here's one theory, her partner is away from home 28 days out of thirty..(This isn't good) no matter how good, down, faithful, educated, or what that woman's occupation may be..the key word in that sentence iiissss.. "Woman"
Women are so much different then men, in so many different ways.
A woman wants to feel sexy, appreciated and at times dominated, depending on what type of woman you have, which by the way, are only two kinds of... the Real who are the strong, I call them the survivors and then, you have what we like to call those fraudulent hoes who live in "iffville" meaning.. in lamens terms.. she's ah fake bish...
Getting back on track.
A woman wants.. damn near needs.. her man to tell her "just how sexy she is or how pretty she looks, because in all reality, she's doing it for you.
Women sit in those salons getting their hair, feet and nails done to empress you! Her bae.. Once that attention stops, a woman will tolerate being alone for as long as human nature will allow, but eventually.. she will give in and begin to scream "let me out!!"
that's like a man who's just been given life on top of death row telling his chic to stay down.. that bish only said she would because she didn't want to kick you while you were already down, but that bish gone be phuckin.
Men do the same thing lady's, they'll rush to the lot and purchase the most expensive, nicest, car on the lot " as if he needed to add any more to his collection of cars," but he purchases this whip to empress you and of course those dehydrated side liners waiting on the sideline justa geta Lil taste of his swag.. but stop suckin his dick, cooking his meals and spending that quality time with him and watch how quick he quit trying to impress yo azz, and start showin off to that stray bish you been trying to keep him away from.
Some times we can forget that it's the little things that captured your mates heart, the TIME you once shared, the chemistry you once had, because once that dies, you might as well purchase a shovel and bury that shid!
Monday, December 9, 2013
Is his profession driving a wedge between your relationship?
Friday, December 6, 2013
29-year-old, Former member of "Dipset" discusses with Wellsink, what life has been like since going independent.
This was not the first time Wellsink had the pleasure of speaking with this very ambitious gentlemen.
I spoke with Screalla as a guest on Wellsink "Raw and Uncut" Radio almost two weeks ago and he had the lines sewed up.. and from what I've heard, he has the talent to keep the crowds attention.
Since going independent Screalla has had his hands in a little bit of everything, from his clothing line "Drunk Life" to rebranding his company "Blue Smoke Entertainment", which for him means logo and all.
It was important for Wellsink, to understand his reasoning for changing the former logo, which appeared to be working very well and carried more of an urban look.
" The company is going in a new direction, I wanted to keep the urban look, but be more on the corperate friendly side ," Screalla, stated
Growing up on the rough streets of Chicago he found himself getting mixed in with the wrong things, it was then that he enlisted in the Military, serving seven year's.
Screalla now,had the financial means and paperwork he needed to send "Blue Smoke Entertainment" into full launch mode.
As the conversation proceed, I became curious to know why he left "Dipset"
"Well, really, Dipset had already been kinda breaking up, every one was basically doing their own thing. Cam'ron and Juelz Santana were doing their thing and Jim Jones was doing his thang as a solo artist, with all that going on, we kinda just fell apart." said Screalla.
This humble soul couldn't rub me the wrong way if he wanted to.. Not only is he ambitious, but he is also a loving son and proud father of 10-year-old Layah and four-year-old Aaliyah.
I see nothing but greatness for this talented young man's future and it was an honor to have him back in the hot seat for this interview on Wellsink.
To hear any of Screalla's music, you can catch him on Sound Cloud and You-Tube, search Screalla. There are currently two singles out on ITunes,I suggest you listen to that slap "Good Night"
A special shout out to videographer EkS.It Media and Graphic Designer Ben
Keep your eyes peeled, Screalla will begin touring the West Coast, beginning the summer of 2014
Thursday, December 5, 2013
Holding on to something that is no longer condusive, can not only be miserable, but could also be dangerous for the person being held.
Most of us have been in a relationship with someone that maybe at one point we liked or even loved and then there's that one person who you know you would have never entered into a relationship with had it not been due to certain circumstances.
If you are in this type of relationship, it only gets worse.
We as men and women should know when to let go. You can not make anyone love or want to be with you. If a man or woman tells you that they are not looking for a relationship, then you need to adhere to that!
Ladies, if a man tells you he is not interested in having children, then respect that man's wishes.. You may not understand his reasons, and honestly you don't need to know or understand why, just respect his wishes!
Then maybe we would hear alot less of how men ain't shid and see less of dead beat dads.
And as for you men..
It's never cool to force a chic to carry and have a child just so you can hold on to her.
Even now, people do not realize that a baby does not bring you closer but can at times be the reason why that line has been drawn right down the middle of your relationship.
We must know our worth, and know when its time to let go.
Love yourself enough to know that you are worth every bit of happiness that this world has to offer